It's so scandalous!

She will be sued ten ways to Sunday but Bill Maher's girlfriend has balls... Hip-hop and Hollywood playas are ducking for cover now that everyone's favorite fly girl is telling all. After intensive vetting by lawyers, HarperCollins has gone to press with Karrine Steffans' ``Confessions of a Video Vixen.'' Widely known as ``Superhead'' (no doubt because of her large cranium), Steffans doesn't hold back when it comes to dishing about her famous lovers. The video-eye-candy-turned-author claims: -- Shaquille O'Neal ``was charmingly self-effacing about his sexual prowess and wanted to reduce my expectations,'' she writes. But ``compared to other men,'' she assures readers, ``he was nothing to complain about.'' She says that Shaq was so impressed with Steffans that, the day after meeting her, he deposited $10,000 into her bank account. -- A small part in ``A Man Apart'' allowed Steffans to discover that star Vin Diesel was ``a beautiful man ... blessed with an enviable eight-pack and an even more enviable (bleep).'' -- After hearing so much about Fred Durst's stature, she gushed, ``to actually hold him ... felt like a privilege.'' -- Sex with ``insatiable'' producer Irv Gotti ``became more like a boxing match.'' During their affair, Steffans claims, Gotti lent her to his friends as he saw fit. -- After inviting her to his home at 4 a.m., Sean (P. Diddy) Combs kicked his manservant Fonzworth Bentley out of a guest bedroom so he and Steffans could spend 15 minutes making love. ``You're one of the best,'' she says P. Diddy told her. Steffans writes: ``I said the same to him, when, in actuality, he was average.'' Ouch. -- Steffans says she got around to Whitney Houston's husband, Bobby Brown, in late 2002. Steffans says she never saw him do drugs. But she worried for his mental health during a frantic encounter where ``he told me he was a member of al-Qaida and that President Bush was looking for him.'' -- She made Ja Rule promise to ``always come back.'' But after he slipped out one morning before she woke up, ``I looked around for something to take with me, something that would smell like him but wouldn't be missed. On the floor I found a balled-up sock, and I placed it to my face and got the fix I was searching for.'' Sniff. -- Steffans also tells the whole story of her back-of-the-limo tryst with Usher. None of the stars' reps we called yesterday responded by deadline. Their handlers can at least take comfort in knowing that after years of self-destructive star-chasing, Steffans now says, ``I am my own woman and look for no one to complete me.'' Photo from Dennica's Place, Story NY Daily News